CONSTITUTION OF THE HOLY APOSTLES

(A 2nd century compilation of the teachings of the 12 Apostles)

THE ADORNMENTS OF SELF AND THE SIN WHICH ARISES FROM IT (FOR MEN)

Let the husband not be insolent nor arrogant towards his wife but compassionate, bountiful, willing to please his own wife alone, and treat her honourably and obligingly, endeavoring to be agreeable to her.

Do not do anything in adornment, words or action as may entice another woman to thee.  If she comes to you and you sin with her, you deserve eternal death.  If she comes to you but you shake her off or refuse her, you are not guilty of adultery but you are still guilty in that you enticed her to commit adultery in her mind.  Your carelessness had caused her to lust after you.  You are guilty of her transgression "and shall inherit a woe."  Do not commit sin to please men; instead attain holiness of life to please God. 

(03-25-04)